It is very important to prepare your child(ren) for the monitored visit - it will make your child feel more comfortable and enjoy the time with their other parent. The following is a list of suggestions for helping your child(ren) prepare for the visit:

• Use words your child understand
• Do not tell child too far in advance of the visit.
• Tell your child you will return when the visit is over.
• Describe the environment.
• Tell child(ren) the he/she will be with mommy or daddy during the entire visit.
• Tell child that he/she will not be forced to say or do anything they don't want to during the visit.

Regardless of your concerns, fears, and anger, present the visit as a good experience. Try to make it family friendly and pleasant for your child!